Hijaab: The Veil is My Pride

Hijaab VeilWhy is it that people are so offended to see someone protect their chastity and adopt their religious belief? It is not just non-Muslims who feel suffocated seeing a lady adhering to the hijaab but also some ‘liberal’ Muslims. To me the liberal part of such Muslims is just their liberty from clothes and not a liberal mind. The words of French revolutionary Madame Roland come to mind: “O liberty! O liberty! What crimes are committed in thy name!”

What a Muslim woman wears is no one’s business; others may go around butt naked if they wish to, they are digging a perfect spot to get hold of the maximum heat of hell-fire.

A couple of years back when I went to Pakistan some of my relatives were very disturbed to see me observe purdah from non-mahram male relatives. They ‘reasoned’ that I do not have an Islamic education (I didn’t at that time) so why should I act so differently from the ‘normal’ folk? Well, I guess my knowledge was limited and I was not aware that the rules of Islam are not binding on every Muslim, only those who study the religion officially.

One of the other arguments was how can I continue to be modern if I have to be Islamic. They just don’t blend. They scoffed at a relative who said he would bring up his daughter as a modern, Islamic girl. All I was upset about was that I got an incompetent thesaurus that does not give western as one of the synonyms for modern! For beginners, Islam is a very modern religion and a religion of all times. Islam is the religion that honors and guards everyone and everyone’s rights. No man-made law is capable of all this, modern and Islam goes hand-in-hand.

People seem to have formed a preconceived notion that women who stick to hijaab have all entered a time machine that they stumbled upon in their stone-age era. Thus, these ‘progressive’ people are exposed to such a criminal sight. What a misery for the beholder!

The West has labeled a woman who sheds off her clothes as a progressive woman (progressing in taking off her clothes?). We are fed with the idea that a successful, assertive and strong woman is one who wears mini-skirt suits and her independence is seen in her diminishing attire.

Women are simply used as a marketable commodity. She has no self-recognition. Her attire is her recognition. So who is the one who is subjugated and oppressed? The woman who follows her religious beliefs with all her heart and protects herself from lustful eyes or the woman who is forced to give in to the latest fashion trend. This is possibly the prime reason why a Muhaajib is feared and derided. She clearly sends a message of her faith and of her not getting involved in the sexual plaything position assigned to her in the Western society.

Why else would her covering herself be a thorn in anyone’s side? Is she taking away their ‘freedom’ by covering herself? Hijaab is a religious statement but weird and biased minds have turned it into a political statement-a statement of rebellion against those who disapprove of it.

A counter cashier is dismissed from her job because she wears hijaab, in the West. She is condemned and there is shock and ‘reasoning’ made that this is against the staff uniform. An Islamic bank in an Islamic country decides to implement the hijaab as part of the staff uniform. That is condemned and considered an act of injustice and oppression.

The so-called secularists do not realize that their blatant hatred against hijaab has become the fuel of the hijaab drive. After the atrocities directed at Muslims in the US. we witnessed the number of Muslim converts had drastically increased, much more than ever before.

To the doubtful Muslims, stop searching for some sheikhs and qadhis who kowtow to your wrong beliefs. Accept what Allah SWT has clearly said,

O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women, to draw their outer garments around them (when they go out or are among men). That is better in order that they may be known (to be Muslims) and not molested. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. [Qur’an, Surah Al Ahzab :59]

And,
Say to the believing man that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that will make for greater purity for them; and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do. And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils (khimar) over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband’s fathers, their sons, their husbands’ sons, their brothers or their brothers’ sons, or their sisters’ sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers! Turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain Bliss. [Qur’an, Surah Noor : 31]


Note: Hijaab is compulsory on both men and women in Islam. Obviously, there is a difference in each gender’s rulings.
Covering of the head is favored in the New Testament.
Throughout the Western history as well, noble women used the veil while prostitutes did not.


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63 responses to “Hijaab: The Veil is My Pride”

  1. Hend Avatar
    Hend

    MO
    My intention is not to re-interpret the holi qoran or to question the wisdom in it. My earlier comment was misunderstood by you. RIGHT and WRONG have no religion. RIGHT is always right and WRONG is always wrong. We should be able to recognize these two regardless of religious edicts and inclinations. If molestation or rape is wrong then we don’t even need to bring Islamc teachings into this discussion because it is quite clear that it is wrong. Veil is a practical mechanism to ward off evil intentions of men and is probably a good option in certain societies where the thinking is not yet mature but I don’t think it applies to ALL the societies. And thus we should be careful before claiming it as THE ONLY solution. It is bascially left to one’s own free will. It should not be forced upon to wear it or to ban it.

    “If you didn’t realise Allah SWT has Commanded people to follow the Islamic Monotheism – worship of Allah SWT Alone.”

    Today’s societies are far more complex and diverse than the middle ages. We live with people of different cultures and possibly religions. While it is good to follow the teachings, we need to maintain mutual respect for different people’s alignments and stay out of each other way by treating religion as their personal business and not forcing anything onto each other. I hope that sounds quite reasonable.

    It is easy to trivialise the Gujarat case by mentioning it loosely here and there to whip up the passions but unfortunately that does not solve any problems because such debates usually degenerate into allegations and counter allegations from both sides and throwing of examples at each other. The important thing is to make sure (as I have mentioned above) that people respect each other’s religions feelings as personal and deal with each other on a human level.

  2. Momina Avatar

    @Hend: Sorry that you were not available for consultation before the making of the Qur’an. 😀

    If you didn’t realise Allah SWT has Commanded people to follow the Islamic Monotheism – worship of Allah SWT Alone. First, that is the right thing one should strive for.

    Second Muslims (on who follows Islam; Islam also meaning peace) are peace-lovers. Now put this in the Qur’anic verse that has offended you so much.

    @Muhammad Yusha: Yes, what are referring to happens and a lot in India (remember Gujrat). But that is because of pure hate and prejudice against Muslims.

    The verse relates to general situations. A girl in revealing clothes would appeal more to a rapist than a girl who is covered.

    There are other situations as well like a girl who is walking alone is more prone to be raped than a girl who is in a group. But let’s stick to the situation the verse explains.

  3. Mohammad Yusha Avatar

    Hend, no one is saying that a woman will not be molested because she is known to be a Muslim. Tens of thousands of innocent Muslim women are raped who cover themselves well, and some are raped because they are Muslims.

  4. Hend Avatar
    Hend

    O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women, to draw their outer garments around them when they go out or are among men. That is better in order that they may be known to be Muslims and not molested.

    I see …so they will be not molested because they will be known to be Muslims. Does that mean it is ok to molest anyone who is known to be a non Muslim? Can we not have something more rational and civil which simply says…molestation of women (even non Muslim) is bad and men are forbidden to perform it?

  5. Lt. General Ayub Khan Avatar

    protect you from being molested? please explain

    in the end, its the choice of the women whether they want to wear it or not.. It shall never be forced on them.

  6. Momina Avatar

    @Mehru: Jazakillaho Khayran Wa Ahsan Jaza’ dearest sister :).

    You are right. Without a doubt, Allah SWT knows best about all things and specifically here about things that are beneficial and harmful to us. If we follow His Command, we will surely be among the winners.

    May Allah SWT strengthen our Imaan, ameen!

    fee amaanillah 🙂

  7. mehru Avatar
    mehru

    @Momina
    I m very impressed with your article..this surely shows that u are an enlightened Muslim who is true by faith. Hijaab is in our religion and people should not take it as old fashioned or islamic injustice….well if we see ayats above mashaALLAH it clearly states that wearing hijab will protect us from being molested…so its for our own Good…I m very happy that u write so well and wear hijaab by your own free will…..keep writing …

  8. Momina Avatar

    @Kashif: lol@since our culture is to stare and stare and stare until one who has more shame would lower gaze or look away or maybe simply get bored of the view presented.

    Anyway, exactly my point, women are compelled to go with the flow (that is, if they do not like what they are wearing). Why are they compelled to go with the flow. They should make the flow go with them. 🙂

  9. Kashif H Avatar
    Kashif H

    Some women in Pakistan follow fashion just to keep up in society and look trendy. They do not want to make a display of their figures as such ( i would like to believe) but are moving with the flow! on the other hand, what they (enjoy or detest?) are the gazes of men “checking ’em out” well I could never understand the logic if you don’t want men to watch u like this, simple, don’t dress like that since our culture is to stare and stare and stare until one who has more shame would lower gaze or look away or maybe simply get bored of the view presented.

    I think in US if you are so compelled to stare at opp sex you have to pass on a smile or just wave/lip sync hi to make it polite and civil. off course the eve teasers can’t afford to do that here so often!

    why is it that women take their dressing so personally? I mean just a question And more with the one that are fashion followers. its like you MUST like what they wear or buzz off!!:))

  10. Momina Avatar

    @Shakir Lakhani: Your article surely was an interesting read but i used to hear such stories happening (by that time very rarely) in my great-grandfather’s time.

    @JKS: 🙂 True. But i never suggested anyone should go around butt-naked.

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