Hijaab: The Veil is My Pride

Hijaab VeilWhy is it that people are so offended to see someone protect their chastity and adopt their religious belief? It is not just non-Muslims who feel suffocated seeing a lady adhering to the hijaab but also some ‘liberal’ Muslims. To me the liberal part of such Muslims is just their liberty from clothes and not a liberal mind. The words of French revolutionary Madame Roland come to mind: “O liberty! O liberty! What crimes are committed in thy name!”

What a Muslim woman wears is no one’s business; others may go around butt naked if they wish to, they are digging a perfect spot to get hold of the maximum heat of hell-fire.

A couple of years back when I went to Pakistan some of my relatives were very disturbed to see me observe purdah from non-mahram male relatives. They ‘reasoned’ that I do not have an Islamic education (I didn’t at that time) so why should I act so differently from the ‘normal’ folk? Well, I guess my knowledge was limited and I was not aware that the rules of Islam are not binding on every Muslim, only those who study the religion officially.

One of the other arguments was how can I continue to be modern if I have to be Islamic. They just don’t blend. They scoffed at a relative who said he would bring up his daughter as a modern, Islamic girl. All I was upset about was that I got an incompetent thesaurus that does not give western as one of the synonyms for modern! For beginners, Islam is a very modern religion and a religion of all times. Islam is the religion that honors and guards everyone and everyone’s rights. No man-made law is capable of all this, modern and Islam goes hand-in-hand.

People seem to have formed a preconceived notion that women who stick to hijaab have all entered a time machine that they stumbled upon in their stone-age era. Thus, these ‘progressive’ people are exposed to such a criminal sight. What a misery for the beholder!

The West has labeled a woman who sheds off her clothes as a progressive woman (progressing in taking off her clothes?). We are fed with the idea that a successful, assertive and strong woman is one who wears mini-skirt suits and her independence is seen in her diminishing attire.

Women are simply used as a marketable commodity. She has no self-recognition. Her attire is her recognition. So who is the one who is subjugated and oppressed? The woman who follows her religious beliefs with all her heart and protects herself from lustful eyes or the woman who is forced to give in to the latest fashion trend. This is possibly the prime reason why a Muhaajib is feared and derided. She clearly sends a message of her faith and of her not getting involved in the sexual plaything position assigned to her in the Western society.

Why else would her covering herself be a thorn in anyone’s side? Is she taking away their ‘freedom’ by covering herself? Hijaab is a religious statement but weird and biased minds have turned it into a political statement-a statement of rebellion against those who disapprove of it.

A counter cashier is dismissed from her job because she wears hijaab, in the West. She is condemned and there is shock and ‘reasoning’ made that this is against the staff uniform. An Islamic bank in an Islamic country decides to implement the hijaab as part of the staff uniform. That is condemned and considered an act of injustice and oppression.

The so-called secularists do not realize that their blatant hatred against hijaab has become the fuel of the hijaab drive. After the atrocities directed at Muslims in the US. we witnessed the number of Muslim converts had drastically increased, much more than ever before.

To the doubtful Muslims, stop searching for some sheikhs and qadhis who kowtow to your wrong beliefs. Accept what Allah SWT has clearly said,

O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women, to draw their outer garments around them (when they go out or are among men). That is better in order that they may be known (to be Muslims) and not molested. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. [Qur’an, Surah Al Ahzab :59]

And,
Say to the believing man that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that will make for greater purity for them; and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do. And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw their veils (khimar) over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband’s fathers, their sons, their husbands’ sons, their brothers or their brothers’ sons, or their sisters’ sons, or their women, or the slaves whom their right hands possess, or male servants free of physical needs, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex; and that they should not strike their feet in order to draw attention to their hidden ornaments. And O ye Believers! Turn ye all together towards Allah, that ye may attain Bliss. [Qur’an, Surah Noor : 31]


Note: Hijaab is compulsory on both men and women in Islam. Obviously, there is a difference in each gender’s rulings.
Covering of the head is favored in the New Testament.
Throughout the Western history as well, noble women used the veil while prostitutes did not.


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63 responses to “Hijaab: The Veil is My Pride”

  1. James Killian Spratt Avatar

    Momina, you asked recently why the novelty of marriage wears off so quickly. I’d be willing to bet that if everyone went “butt-naked,” the novelty would be gone within three days or so. Between 3 and 97%, we’re all so similar that except for a very few outstanding specimens, none of us is too remarkable.

    It’s huge fun to anticipate what is within the wrapped packages under the Christmas tree; you have to wait for Christmas Day to find out what you’ve been given, when everyone gets together to unwrap them, previously marked only with a little card on the outside with your name and the giver’s, and some little greeting like “Merry Christmas,” or “With Love.” No wrapping, no surprise. Awww….

  2. Shakir Lakhani Avatar

    @ Momina: I just posted the article at my blog. You can read it now.

  3. Momina Avatar

    The article you told me to go through, “In the land of wife-beaters”. I’m sorry i might be terrible in searching.

  4. Momina Avatar

    @Irfan: Jazakallaho Khayran Wa Ahsan Jaza’ for your insightful comment and you are right on every point. Insha’Allah things will get better (ameen).

  5. Shakir Lakhani Avatar

    @ Momina: “yesterday i went on your blog to search for the article you mentioned. i could find it nowhere. could you assist me?” Which article are you referring to?

  6. Irfan Avatar
    Irfan

    @Momina
    Dear sister you are absolutely right,i totally agree with you.I think people feel jealous,their conscience do tell them what is right and what is wrong,but they don’t want to follow that,moreover, if they see someone doing something right that they start criticizing them.This is the problem with those liberal Muslims who make fun of hijab.Moreover, we try to find logic/reasoning by interpreting Quran in our own way.
    I think, if one himself is unable to practice a good deed he should not condemn others, who are doing it.Hya is an essential part of Islam.It applies for both men and women.ladies in abaya/hijab do get respect in our society and men generally do lower their gaze once they see a woman in hijab.

  7. Momina Avatar

    @Hina: Jazakillaho Khayran for your comment 🙂

    They simply cannot accept the harsh reality 😉

  8. Hina Safdar Avatar

    well written Momina….
    I always wonder why people always think that those who wear abaya or hijaab are being forced?
    or those who want to wear like u had to face opposition?

  9. Momina Avatar

    @SL: lol, no thank one abaya will suffice 🙂

    dear mr. lakhani the article wasn’t specifically about me. anyway, no one has the guts to tell me anything about my attire. as far as i know, no one forced me to wear hijaab. instead it was me fighting for my right to wear the niqaab. alhumdulillah, i succeeded.

    the terms that are mentioned in the Holy Qur’an regarding hijaab clearly indicate the wearing of jilbab and the khimar as compulsory.

    Pakistani dress being modest??????????
    lol, are you serious? maybe, in the past it was a modest dress. but the current trend of the kameez literally being a shirt and that too a very revealing shirt. so tight that it appears the tailor stitched it over the lady. the sides (hmm not sure what are those cuts at the side of the shirt called but hope you understand what i mean) are cut so high that not just the hips but the side of the torso can be seen, mostly. the shalwars barely kiss the ankles. the material of shalwars available is so flimsy it seems to be made out of dupatta. i am not even talking about the ultra-deep necks that are preferred.

    last time i checked all this wasn’t part of a modest dress.

    its a shame that in your teens the burqa was used to cover sins. alhumdulillah, i was not present at that time. alhumdulillah, things are not the same.

    times have changed, women have realised that they are being exploited and the best way to follow is ALLAH SWT’s Way.

    hey, one other thing-yesterday i went on your blog to search for the article you mentioned. i could find it nowhere. could you assist me?

  10. Shakir Lakhani Avatar

    @ Momina: no one is forcing you to give up the hijab, you can wear seven burkhas if you want to, as long as you feel comfortable, no one can object. However, from the nineteen fifties to 1980, there throughout the Islamic world, women were fighting against the veil (even in the arab world, except Saudi Arabia). The veil was seen as a symbol of oppression, imposed by illiterate men on their women-folk. Even the Holy Koran doesn’t say that a woman has to be covered from head to toe or wear the abaya or burkha. The clothes that Pakistani and Indian women wear are quite modest and not the kind which would arouse a male. Finally, when I was in my teens, the burkha was favoured by prostitutes and women having illicit affairs (so they wouldn’t be recognized).

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