Haya- The Invaluable Gem of a Muslim Lady

Haya (modesty and a sense of shame) is a fundamental characteristic of the noble and a sign of high standards and Iman. This feeling is evident in the eye and affects the features. The best of Allah’s servants has said about it, “Al haya khairun kulluh.” (Muslim). Meaning that “Haya is all good.”

These days haya has become a taboo subject. Let alone having a slight affect upon Muslim women, the caller to haya is considered backward and unprogressive. This is due to the vicious impressions made by the enemies of Allah and of the Muslims woman so that she would lose her dignity and honor that Islam has bestowed upon her.

The western trends have so hypnotized the Muslim woman that she would follow it even if it leads her to the snake’s snare. Why is that so? Ponder over this however long; you would come to the evident conclusion that it is a stark indication of the weakness of religion in her.

The Muslim woman has been so influenced that we see her dressed in such clothes that are equivalent to being undressed. We see seduction in clothing, looks, the way she carries herself and the way she glances…do we want our daughters and sisters to be like this. The answer would be a loud NO. The heart cannot accept such a vision of their loved ones, but the eye is turned blind on reality. That is what is happening. The extent to which this matter grieves me cannot be explained in mere words. Unknowingly, many Muslim women are following the deviated path and happily entering the spider’s web. It is my sincere plea to every Muslim sister and brother to guide and advise your sister in faith. She needs direction with care.

What I am saying has been said by many before me. You might have heard it a number of times, but I pray to Allah to put effect in my words. Think over them carefully. Allah (SWT) has created upon you a pure nature. Let it remain pure. Protect it from the pollution of evil of the world. Take care of it. It is an Amaanat of Allah with you.

Allah (SWT) has given the Muslims woman a very high, honorable, dignified and revered position. It is this that is a thorn in the tranquility of the enemies of Allah. They have been trying their best to uproot the honour Allah has bestowed upon her. Are we so weak to bend to their maneuverings? No! We are strong enough to resist all evil temptations. How much will power does it require? Our love for our religion is way stronger than these silly temptations, insha’Allah.

We should be cautious of their efforts. We should tread on water, as they would come through that door of your house where the latch is weak. We see how well presented their advertisements are that easily influence the weak mind. Always the same terms used, ‘Move with the times’, ‘be a part of the civilized society’, ‘we need modernisation’. Are the principles of a civlised and modern society shedding of clothes and seduction? If that is the case then the most civilized society of the world resides in the jungles of Amazon.

The moral character, virtue , pride and honor of the Muslim woman is invaluable. That is what they envy. They want the Muslim woman to be despicable, disgraced and disregarded in the society.

Tell in what way is exposing oneself honorable and a sign of progress? We would hear statements like, ‘hijab should be of the heart…’ I fail to understand why doesn’t the mind question the stupidity of this statement. Surely, there is hijaab of the heart, i.e. the belief and its acceptance of hijaab. The acceptance is seen in the appearance of the person. The heart is already covered. There is no person, no matter how moral less the person is, to have his or her heart visible to the world.

‘’Do not make a display like the display of those previous to Islam (in ignorance).’[Al-Ahzaab: 33]

The practice of the enemies of Allah is not one of progress but is reverting one back to the days of ignorance. It is the nature of woman to have haya. And the Muslim woman is the metaphor of haya. The weakness of iman results in the weakening and eventual disappearance of modesty. This leads to the loss of her nature. Just think about that!

Does a logical mind respect that woman who reveals almost all her parts, and these days in private parts? Animals seem to have more respect than such human beings, as they at least have fur etc., to cover parts of their bodies. Is that what human ‘civilisation’ has come to?

The Prophet (s.a.w.w.) has said, “There are two types of people in Hellfire among them are women who are clothed yet naked, astray, tempting and whose hair is piled upon their heads like the humps of camels. They will neither enter the Paradise nor even smell its fragrance.” [Muslim]

Hold on to tight Habl-Allah and that is the Holy Book of Allah (SWT) and the Sunnah of the messenger of Allah (s.a.w.w.). That’s your shield against all evils. Be proud of your religion, your religion is the sole Truth.


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19 responses to “Haya- The Invaluable Gem of a Muslim Lady”

  1. Lt. General Ayub Khan Avatar
    Lt. General Ayub Khan

    Momina — Turkey is a secular country. I have lived in Turkey for several years and it was a pleasure seeing that majority of country is Muslim —but they are tolerant.

    You have people who are dressed ‘western’ and you have people wearing hijab or having a beard.

    It is nobody’s business to impose their version of faith on others. We need to stop judging others.

    Instead lets focus on ourselves. Turkey happens to be a good example for Muslims. They have a superb justice system, good infrastructure, nationalistic and hard-working people, and good dedication to their democratic nation –which has made it a model country for Muslims.

  2. Momina Avatar

    Here you will find the article regarding discrimination in Turkey: http://www.alarabiya.net/views/2009/05/16/72984.html

    @Kashif H: fully agree with you. All learning begins at home.

    As ofr women liberation, women are still thought of as a commodity in the West. Merely objects. That is a fact.

    Recently, I came across yet another advertisement that exploits women. The ad is of a TV but the first thought that comes to mind is that the ad might either be of some fitness club. It says SLIM…and shows a super-slim lady in bright red mini-skirt, smiling seductively…The complete focus of the ad is on her. At one corner is the picture of a flat screen TV.

  3. Kashif H Avatar
    Kashif H

    We all know what happens when people are forced to do something they are not really convinced in doing.

    Hijaab/purdah is mandatory in many Muslim families. The girls may not be taught or convinced that its better for them. As soon as the danger is over all purdah is gone. More pent up frustrated activities unfold. Same is true with boys who eve tease. Sometime the boys are fighting among themselves since the guys within the gang in a state of ignorance teased sister of another buddy gang member. Of course he had never seen the sister of his buddy……!

    The point is our society has “rules of convenience”. Its okay to tease someone else’s sister to stare and pass filthy comments but HEYYYY not mine..or else.

    People have facades and many faces. Its a common sight that “shareef aadmi” starts guzzling huge amounts of liquor as soon as the plane takes of on board! The same “shareef admi” as a different face where he lives and another in different city/country.

    Haya and modesty MUST be taught at home and in schools. Children should be well versed in religious ideology and cultural identity. Our respect is in following religion. This comes from experience while living in foreign countries as well.

    No religion promotes vulgarity and promiscuous behavior. There is a sense of purdah in Judaism Christianity so much so in Hinduism.

    The popular culture is a recent disease. The plaguing of psychological health of humanity.

    The women liberation movement was introduced by rockefellers to get women out of their homes and tax them. The jews who rule the media and hollywood still have strict moral codes for their women dresses. Anyone here must have seen or watched how their girls dress up to go i private jew schools all over US specially NYC. Its all in front of us. Its take some courage to change our way of thinking. The thinking which is bent to please other and not Allah Ta’lah.

  4. Lt. General Ayub Khan Avatar
    Lt. General Ayub Khan

    and why do we focus so much on the women and not on the men?

    this is delusional thinking

    we should cover women head to toe but not look at the guys who whistle at them and stare at them?

    this is only taleban/wahhaby hypocrite mentality

  5. Lt. General Ayub Khan Avatar
    Lt. General Ayub Khan

    all this talk of westernization is garbage…

    in the end, “for every man/women his/her own”

    lets worry about ourselves and not judge others……

    the worst part about us is that we are quick to judge others when it is none of our business

  6. Mohammad Yusha Avatar

    I didn’t know that some cafes didn’t allow girls with a headscarf on. This is really funny. Thanks for the info.

    Even though among Muslims this is to a limit but in western countries it is in every house and it is over the top. Western mentality is perverted and shocking.

  7. Momina Avatar

    Na’oodhubillah

    *Barakallaho feek

  8. Momina Avatar

    Barakallho feek.

    i think the root cause is the parents themselves. how can any parent let their daughters be almost nude?!

    people are so influenced by the West. A Romanian convert sister told me that it is a matter of pride for the father and husband when their wives and daughters are better in their physique from others’ wives and daughters, in the Western culture. They are proud to show them off to the world as if saying ‘see! my one is better than yours.’

    turkey is a prime example of Muslims trying to adopt the Western culture, where daughters are dressed skimpily and bring their boyfriends home…so casual…

    moreover, some posh cafes do not allow women wearing hijab into their cafes. its a matter of bad impression for them…wonder what impression have the left on their account books (good and evil deeds)?

  9. Mohammad Yusha Avatar

    Excellent article.

    I’m surprised that girls don’t feel embarrased in front of male family members in skimpy clothing, especially their fathers.

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