The West believes that a suppressed sexual desire can create problems and it must be released. So, we have people having sex with whoever they can find. Be it the secretary, the neighbors wife, boss’ wife or the girl next door. They talk big but they have nothing to say about the number of babies that are found dumped on sidewalks, a result of fornication. What about the number of people growing up with AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases, too horrible to even mention. They will tell you to use a condom, but will they tell you that a person can get AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases by something as simple as kissing another person’s lips. The exchange of saliva in this act is enough for the entire life to be ruined. How about the other ‘forms’ of sex. Do people not get AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases that way?
The West has fornicated itself to destruction. What is unbelievable is that even after this, the muslim world is ready to believe all wrong theories preached by them without even bothering to look at their miserable state. Sex is pure and should only be reserved for one’s spouse. It is not something that a person can have with anyone he/she wants, like an animal. One of the things that differenciates us from animals is sexual morality.
Guys and girls are not the same. A guy cannot get pregnant and it is impossible to tell whether a guy is a virgin or not no matter how many times he has had sex. It is always the girl who ends up suffering in numerous ways in illicit relationships and ruins her life. If she becomes pregnant she is supposed to have brought shame on the family and she is a black spot and no one will marry her. Society becomes cruel to a girl who fornicates but at the same time the guy gets away with everything. It is cruel. It is unfair. However, it is reality.
One thing about the difference in guys and girls is that guys will indulge in indecency on impulse whereas a girl will only do it if she is totally corrupt. Girls have a much higher sense of self respect, honour and dignity. Also, girls are created gorgeous. When a guy sees a girl the effect is much greater than when the opposite happens. Girls also get married much earlier than guys. It is for these reasons that it is much easier for a guy to be corrupt than a girl.
Girls should wait till they get married and should know that if they fornicate they will be the ones who will suffer. They should be aware that a lot of guys out there just want to use them for sex. After that, they will be on their own. A number of guys with sexually transmitted diseases are preying on girls and girls are becoming victims, but they are to be blamed as well. Sometimes they themselves think that they are modern and should have the freedom to do what they want. Who says girls should not have freedom, but when freedom is granted, they use it for wrong purposes. Look at the yearly unwanted pregnancies in the West and the number of people growing up with sexually transmitted diseases. Do Muslim girls want the same results?