Why Indians and Pakistanis fight each other and how to bridge the gap?

In the comments section of every blog and youtube video, and in chatrooms, I notice something in common. There is always a war on between an Indian and a Pakistani. Although comments stay within limits on blogs, chatrooms and the comments section in youtube is filled with all kinds of vulgarities and the filthiest, most abusive language you can imagine.

On blogs, Muslims have nothing better to do than call Hindus cow worshippers and Hindus have nothing better to do than call Islam an oppressive religion. On youtube and in chatrooms, well, I don’t even want to talk about it.

There are so many similarities that I sometimes wonder what Hindus and Muslims fight about. Both India and Pakistan have corrupt leaders, eve teasers, black magicians, fraud, corruption, prostitution, AIDS, beggars, poverty, rich misers, backbiters, murderers, rapists, honor killings, dowry customs, wife beaters, child abusers…phew!

What are we fighting about?

Hey, I forgot one similarity. That of the after effects of an India-Pakistan cricket match. When Pakistan wins, Indians break their TV sets. When India wins, Pakistanis break their TV sets. I was wondering what happens if an Indian is married to a Pakistani. In such a case, regardless of who wins, the TV set will end broken!

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November 12, 2009

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Mohammad Yusha

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55 responses to “Why Indians and Pakistanis fight each other and how to bridge the gap?”

Hamid Majid Abbasi

November 15, 2009

@confused & abheek
well this is no love hate situation………..no1 in pakistan has taught us to love indian and i m more dan sure dat dis is the same happening on ur side…………..the key lies in “tolerance”…………….we have to tolerate each other existence…….dis blame game is 1 thing which we have played on every level………
u can cry for 26/11 and we can give u a whole dictionary of dis………….evidence for heaven sake its all about openiing the eyes…………ISI does the same what RAW is doing in Pakistan and i believe there shouldnt be any argument coz dey r made for this reason………kashmir singh reachd dere 2 reveal his achievements while sarbajeet is singing here ur well wishes………………nd wid no surprise d same stories will be available on ur side………………..
kashmir is and will be the real point………………its explosive power has dies down a bit but not the logical question which is still unanswered?
nd by d way as per ur state papers d biggest threat to india rite nw is the “moist rebels”…………..well i hope u hav a proof dat it is also funded by ISI?

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Mohamed

November 15, 2009

What divides Indians and Pakistanis is much akin to racist hate, it is but nothing less.

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confused indian

November 15, 2009

@ Lt. General Ayub Khan,

the issue of Kashmir is still a bone of contention

how? please brainwash us with your thought.

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confused indian

November 15, 2009

@ Shakir,

Why does India have bad relations with Sri Lanka, Nepal and Bangladesh?

how you learn that? from your relatives who live in india?

by the way, do you have cordial relation with your other neighbors like afghanistan and iran? then why some irani officials directly alleging that pakistan was behind the sistan-baluchestan suicide attack? and afganistan ambassador in america saying that isi is behind recent attack on indian embassy, kabal?

i have never heard this kind of allegation leveled by nepal, srilanka, bangladesh or even china towards india. i don’t know about your relatives. have they?

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Shakir Lakhani

November 15, 2009

@ Abheek: there was no ISI when India invaded Kashmir, Junagadh and Hyderabad. When the U.N. asked that a plebiscite be held to determine the future of J&K, India refused to do so. Why does India have bad relations with Sri Lanka, Nepal, China and Bangladesh? All India has to do is to withdraw from Kashmir, give Arunachal Pradesh to China, stop interfering in Nepal, Bangladesh and Sri Lanka, and there will be peace in the region. We Pakistanis are not brainwashed, and neither are the Nepalese, or Chinese, or Sri Lankans/Bangladeshis.

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Lt. General Ayub Khan

November 14, 2009

no you indians are just overly-dramatic, overly-emotional people.

cat’s paw and at the mercy of your media. Learn to think pragmatically and less using emotions.

Pakistan is here to stay, and you hindustanys better learn to accept this reality. Armed Forces are protectors of the nation.

indians fail to offer plebicite to occupied Kashmiris, and that is why they rebel; india knows that she is losing her artificial grip on Kashmir

just look at Sri Nagar, where the qaum are pro-Pakistan and they HATE india more than we do! 🙂

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Abheek

November 14, 2009

As an Indian, let me put my thoughts down .. I hope you will publish these.
Why Indians hate Pakistanis is due to the constant ill-will that your nation (or Army) has towards us. In every terrorist attack that has happened, ISI/LeT/Pak Military hand can be traced. Now the question that should be asked is why does a Pakistani gives into violence so easily, especially against India? The reason is that you guys have been brain-washed to hate us. From the comments that I have read here and other forums, the voice that comes out is same – India is somehow responsible for the miserable state that Pakistan is in. And this is stupid, to say the least.
Your information is regulated by the big boss in your country – the Army. They spread lies and distort truth – I can give n number of examples – All wars have been started by Pakistan – including Kargil . But what you are taught is that India is the aggressor. You are told that arms that have been caught from TTP are of Indian make – any independent third party observer with knowledge of arms can tell you that this is a lie – India doesn’t produce the type of armament that has been found from TTP. Again you are told that India is behind the bomb blast in recent history. Could you think for a while on this charge – Why would we team up with someone who has decleared their enemity towards us (TTP ex-chief Baitullaha Mehsud had made his intentions clear after 26/11 attack – to help Pak Army, in case India invades)
Thus your Army has successfully created hate-pschyosis towards us – All based on lies. And where their is hate goodwill cant exist. All this – to meet their narrow ends – that of being in power – If there is peace between India and Pak – they are the people to loose the most. It is said that a nation has army. But in your case, it is army controlling a nation.
Now think by putting yourself in our shoes – I am from Mumbai – on 26/11 we lost 186 of our bretherns to your scheming men in uniform. What was our fault. I can take you one step back. 11th July 2006 – 206 of our brethern were killed by bomb blasts that were carried out by ISI. And you can go back and back and you will realize that as an Indian it is impossible to excuse the brutality of ISI / Pak Army. They know they can’t win a straight war with us – so thousand cut policy is what they are employing.
All this has created hatered in the mind of common Indian towards Pakistan.

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Shakir Lakhani

November 14, 2009

@ Hend: someone once told me that the Kashmir dispute was planned by the British before granting independence, so that the two countries would always be at war and dependent upon foreign powers for arms. But you must remember that if India hadn’t been a bully and had left the Kashmir issue to be decided in terms of the U.N Resolution, Pakistan and India would have been friends and instead of China, India would have had access to the Pakistan market.

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Lt. General Ayub Khan

November 14, 2009

the issue of Kashmir is still a bone of contention

i think it is mostly indian media which brainwashes its people with anti-Pakistan sentiment –but then again media is just business.

we dont need to be friends with india…..but we should just focus on ourselves and stop wasting our time with them. We have nothing to gain from them, so dafa karo!

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Hend

November 14, 2009

haider

my intention was not to say that you learn the wrong history and we learn the right history. all of my comments apply to both the parties.

i don’t want to challenge your comments or those of Lakhani Sahab though i could on every line; simply because these actually highlight the various reasons i noted.

all i can say is,
we know very little but we think it is all there is to know.
the truth no longer suites either.
indian and pakistani people are too emotional, too petty, too hateful and too communal and this will continue to hinder their progress, their rational – logical thinking and they will continue to make the mistakes which benefit foreigners.

MY

thanks.

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