When a lot of people live together the tendency to compare arises. The perfect place for the birth of jealousy. Jealousy is the main reason for Black Magic being performed and in 99 cases out of a 100 it is performed by a relative.
Sometimes 2 married brothers will decide to live together. One with a good job and the other not well off. The tendency to compare between them and their wives will arise. It has to. One reason why there is little or no Magic in the West is because there is no such thing as a joint family in the West.
There are other problems too. Sometimes, grandparents undermine the mother’s authority because they feel that they have more experience in raising children. They pass adverse remarks to the mother in front of the children like, “You don’t know how to handle children” – As a result, the mother feels suppressed, depressed and frustrated. She, in turn, takes her frustration out on her children, which affects the overall development of the child.
These stupid grandparents should realise that it is her child. She has the right to raise them however she wants so they should keep their old mouth shut.
Daughters in law being harrased and tortured in Pakistan and India is very common. Why mothers in law become complete animals is something i’ll never understand. They will torture their daughter in law all day and when the husband comes back from work they will poison their son’s mind that your wife did this and your wife did that.
In Islam it is compulsory on a man to provide his wife with a separate house after marriage. He cannot keep her with his parents if she doesn’t want to live with them. Asking his wife to serve them is out of the question.